Identity & Authenticity
Affirming care for LGBTQ+, queer, trans, and gender-expansive people exploring who they are and how they want to move through the world.
Identity-affirming therapy in Virginia
A grounded, collaborative place to understand your experiences, reconnect with your own wisdom, and grow practical tools for the life you want to live.

Come as you are.
Grow at your own pace.
The work we can do
Therapy with Ellen is integrative and collaborative. Your voice and lived experience guide the process; thoughtful reflection is paired with tools you can carry into everyday life.
Affirming care for LGBTQ+, queer, trans, and gender-expansive people exploring who they are and how they want to move through the world.
A steady place to work with uncertainty, self-esteem, family conflict, school concerns, chronic stress, and seasons of significant change.
Support for emotional intensity, relationship patterns, personality-related experiences, and building skills that hold up outside the therapy room.
Space to explore spirituality, religious trauma, racial identity, neurodivergence, grief, and the stories that shape your sense of belonging.
Make room for complexity, authorship, choice, and the meanings beneath familiar stories.
Practice concrete skills for emotion regulation, distress tolerance, mindfulness, and relationships.
Understand distress within identity, culture, power, systems, and the realities of your lived experience.
Based in Northern VirginiaAbout Ellen
Hi, I’m Ellen.
I’m so glad you’re here. Seeking therapy can be a powerful step, and I’m honored to hold space for people navigating the complexities of being human—especially LGBTQ+ individuals and young adults exploring who they are, who they want to become, and how they want to move through the world.
I approach therapy collaboratively, with the belief that you are the expert on your own life. There is no one-size-fits-all version of therapy. Your voice, lived experience, identities, and goals guide our work together.
My approach blends deep reflection with practical change. I draw from narrative therapy to explore the stories we carry about ourselves and where those stories came from, while incorporating tools from approaches like DBT to help you navigate emotions, relationships, stress, and everyday life.
Whether you’re working through anxiety, exploring your identity, navigating relationships or life transitions, or simply feeling stuck, therapy can be a place to understand yourself more deeply while creating meaningful change in the present.
You don’t have to leave parts of yourself at the door. You get to bring your whole self here.
Colleague endorsements
Selected phrases from verified Psychology Today endorsements.
“Thoughtful, trauma-informed therapist.”
Kimberly Anderson, LPC
“Affirming and deeply empathetic.”
Grace Bomar, MEd
“Making therapy practical.”
Hana Liu
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Get in touch
If Ellen’s approach sounds like what you’re looking for, reach out for a free 15-minute consultation or an initial appointment.